Random - parents vs children

In our constant attempts to be filial by trying to meet our parents demands, we can be very frustrated and vexed, as there are opportunity costs to very decision we make. If I ever have children, I think I will be one of those spoilt parent; a pain in the ass to them.

Life is vicious cycle. One day someone is depending on us, the other day we will need to depend on others. This is the never ending relationship between the parent and the child.

Watched Shrek 4 today, then went to the library and then for dinner today.

Shrek 4 is quite good. Teaches us not to take things for granted.

I was just browsing the books at the library then I came across a book which aims to promote happiness. It was a boring book but there were 2 phrases that caught my attention.

Happiness is a choice.

Happiness is free.

Everyday we make a decision, if we are going to be happy that day. This is very difficult, but seemingly, if we make a decision to be happy the moment we wake up, we can be a bit happier.

We are actually born with the ability to be happy, but as we grow, we somehow forget how to be happy. As a result, we try to buy things and spend lots of money with the aim to make ourselves happy. Coming to think about it, is that really necessary?

我相信

我相信：冥冥注定现在的你遇到现在的我。若以前的你遇到以前的我，可能我们就不会是那么好的朋友 - 因为那时的你可能不削我这个朋友。

好希望自己能相信自己的价值，但四周围的人与事都证明了不管我有多努力，在他人心目中，我似乎永远排不到第一顺位。

Mad angry!!!!

It simply doesn't pay to put in additional effort in this god-forsaken company!!!


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Dilemma

I am unsure. Not sure if I should continue in the hospitality industry. I have mixed feelings. I like the industry, yet I loath the low pay and the frog-in-the-well feel. I feel that I am faring relatively well currently. Not sure if I will be able to get take it that I am at the bottom of everything, not sure about everything and know nothing about everything.

Nevertheless I know I have to leave to widen my perspective, to learn more for greater growth.

When will I leave? I am not sure.

Pre-cny sianz-ness

Problems buying cny clothes. Super sianz..... Maybe I should just go back to work for cny..

*indescribable sianz-ness*


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Feeling bad

I felt really bad for being insensitive in cracking a bad joke. It was seriously my bad.. :(

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